The strip club culture has men going wild and unsettled all the time. It is common to see guys seated at the edge of the dance floor walking up to stick dollar bills into a stripper’s thong. Other guys cannot hold their excitement and stack up bills just to toss them on stage. Although it is permissible to do so in strip clubs, it is really is not a good approach at all.
Strippers are used to the rough treatment that guys portray in strip clubs, but that does not really mean it is a good thing to be mean to strippers. As your entertainer, strippers actually appreciate a sense of respect for who they are at a personal level by observing some basic club norms and rules of social engagement.
The first club norm to observe is staying off the dance floor. As much as strippers appreciate attention and applaud for their show of dancing skills and body twerking, it is rude for you to go up on stage where they are performing. Keeping your distance is the first line of respect. It is not like you would walk into a hotel and go in the kitchen where the chefs are preparing food. That is their space. Similarly, the dance floor is the stripper’s territory and keeping off of it is a sure way to show that you regard strippers highly for what show they are putting up for you to enjoy.
Going to a strip club is a not a walk into a motor show. You cannot just walk and enjoy the view like you are admiring new car releases. You have to be in for the whole package; otherwise you are starving the strippers. Going to a strip club and abstaining from tipping implies that you are “eating without paying.” Moreover, strip clubs rules imply that customers ought to tip at least once per every song performed. Tipping is the most pleasure-giving thing for a stripper, it means you not only appreciate the show she has put for you, but also a ticket for her to come back to the club again and dance for you.
Basically, strippers earn only a fraction of the money you tip them. Treating them with some dignity and tipping accordingly is all a stripper could ask for. Lastly, if you need a private session with a stripper, ask for it like you would ask for a private charter service. Approach the stripper warmly and give her the impression you are interested in a strip dance and pay up for it.